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writes:I'm dating a divorced man with two children. We both have permanent jobs and he is 7 years my seniour.His ex-wife is currently harrasing me even though I try to be civil to her for the sake of her children. She sends me sms's which are problematic, but I have not responded to any of those. I always give my boyfriend time to be with his kids, I never complain about anything because I am a product of divorce, I know how it feels like. should I keep on with relatinship even though this woman use her kids for attentioin. I don't have a child and my boyfriend pays maintanance for his children. this woman is actually making our lives miserable
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reader, elsie  +, writes (14 March 2007):
 why do ex's behave like this? they don't realise in the long run they are the one's who are degrading themselves. Not much consolation but she must be eaten up with jealousy,bitterness etc,sad really. Why not change all your no's? Cut down the avenues for her being able to contact you. This is direct harrasment so why isn't your man warning her off? I think men in this situation are very cowardly and maybe he thinks his ex will stop him seeing the kids. Pat on the back for not rising to the bait and replying to her sms's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Talk to your bloke and tell him this is totally unacceptable and you don't feel happy in your situation. Let him know exactly how you feel, don't put up with it. She needs to realise that he has moved on and you two have a life together. Ex's can be like that, i know, i have had experience with them in the past and they are a pain in the bum! Don't let her win though, put a big smile on your face and get even closer to your bloke, but don't split up with him because of this bitter ex.
Take care and get in touch if you want.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): I'm pretty sure you have mention it to your boyfriend, right? Situations like this makes people leave the relationship because of that same reason you're going thru. It's tough. If you love him enough, you'll do something about it...restraining order. If not, leave the relationship. You have enough problems of your own. Why add more?
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reader, poison +, writes (7 March 2007):
I think you need to sit down to your boyfriend and talk to him about what he thinks you should do. this woman is clearly putting strain on your relationship and your boyfriend and her need to realsie that you don't have a problem with him seeing his children, and she needs to realise the ammount of stress she is putting on you.
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