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writes:i`ve been dating this guy for 6 months and 16 days now, and im 8 weeks and 2 days pregnant with his kid. and he broke up with his ex girlfriend last june, and yet she is obsessed with his family still, and it is now june 15 2010. and today actually she started an argument over facebook with me; and she was being immature and dragged my boyfriends family into it. and she was saying that his family likes her more and shes more apart of there family than me. when i was like sorry to break it to you sweetie but you are not apart of their family, so give it up. im officially family with them now, but the thing is she has the nerve to tell his family that im the one who started the whole thing just so they take her side when shes the one who started it all. than on the other hand his mom is letting her move in to her house for the summer, but thankfully he lives with his grandparents and this summer he`ll be able to move in with me. but i just dont know what to do, and i need help because its drving me crazy and im getting stressed out a lot by it. so please tell me what i should do about his obsessive ex girlfriend! im in need of good help and advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010):
You are pregnant and you don't want to disturbed the growing and nuturing of your child over some foolishness an ex-girlfriend of your boyfriend is trying to pull you into. If the ex is still in contact with the family, there is nothing you can do about it....just as long as she isn't contacting your boyfriend and harrassing you, everything else is fair game because, you do not have the authority to tell the family who they can and cannot keep in contact with. Maybe the family did really take a liking to the ex..who knows...but if I were you, I would try my best not to allow it to bother me mentally or emotionally. Why your bf's mother would allow the ex to move in is strange to me and what's even more strange is the fact that this ex is actually going to move in...maybe the ex is staying close with the family as a way to be apart of your boyfriend's life? Who knows...it's all just very "fishy" to me.
Also, you must learn to ignore the bullcrap thrown at you from the ex....you are going to be a mother now, thus you must mature faster so that you can be "all you can be" for this innocent child you are going to birth into this crazy and wicked world. You don't have time to think about this ex, you don't have time to be stressed out over the ex, you don't have time to defend yourself against the lies the ex tells the family. What you do have time for is to be a mother, a parent, a protector, the love and support your child will need to grow in a respectable human being.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): Your pregnant at 13-15? After 6 months with someone? And your issue is your boyfriends ex?
You got to get your priorities straight. Baby comes first, than your boyfriend...where is he in all of this? And the ex, ignore her, she's the least of your problems! Harsh maybe, but bringing life into this world is bigger than a facebook spat. Remove her from your life, ask your bf to do the same so you can plan how to have your baby grow up to have a wonderful life.
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