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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and are so inlove with eachother. But we have been getting in arguments almost everyday for over 6 months now... Bad ones. His best friends girlfriend goes to his school, and wont stay off of him. they go for lunch together and are in some classes together and texts. he says nothings wrong and shes just his bestfriends girl. but im worried.. help?
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (8 September 2010):
Any chance you might be reading too much into that and trying to find something going on when there isn't?
I don't think any of that sounds suspicious. They clearly can't control what classes they take, I guess they could but its always nice to have a friend in the class and I'm sure they didn't intentionally pick out their classes together to match. If they go to the same school perhaps they figure that they both need to eat, so why not eat with a friend? It really sounds like they are just friends, she's taken anyway.
If you trust your boyfriend then why fuss about this? Even if she did like him more than a friend and jumped him oneday, do you think he'd go for that chance? He has two good reasons to only be friends with this girl.
1. he's dating you...not her
2. his best friend is dating her...not him.
Jealousy is a common emotion, but don't jump to conclusions.
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