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36-40,
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writes:i am a masters student. i'm in this class with another guy. the class is really tough and most of us do our homework in groups, discussion mainly. so this guy and me started working together. i think i'm in love with the guy, or at least am deeply infatuated. however, he is straight (as far as i know), and so i cant do anything about it, but i also dont know how to deal with it. lately, i've been thinking about him a lot and its hurting to the point i cant even concentrate on my homework. any advice?btw, i'm not out, so he doesnt know i am gay. Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 hmm this is a tough situation. you could try opening up and talking to him? if this is out of the question then you're going to have to live with it. i strongly suggest you come out of the closet, it will feel like a release to you, a weight from your shoulders. i have helped so many friends come out and they all are much happier people. its a very hard decsision and if its totally out of the question for you to come out right now then you will have to try and get over this boy. keep yourself focussed on the work you need to do, dont let your standards slip, maybe stop studying with him for a while ,this will put the 'out of sight,out of mind' theory to the test. xx good luck with this,xx if you need any help coming out i will put you in touch with one of my friends who has actually been in you position. x
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