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He's scared to play wrestle with me because he accidently hurt me. I miss the fun-how can I convince him it's ok?

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Question - (22 January 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

While wrestling about two and a half weeks ago, my boyfriend (not liking to use his own hands to 'hit' me), grabbed my wrists and started causing me to lightly slap myself in the face. It was one of those teasing 'quit hittin' yourself!' things and it was fun. We rough-house and wrestle like brother and sister, and we beat on each other playfully (sometimes painfully, lol!).

Anyhow, two and a half weeks ago, we were running through his house and into the livingroom together, and he spit in my face (I had spit first which started our game), so I kicked him in the belly. He grabbed my wrist to make me hit myself, so I pushed away. My arm gave out a little so he really hit me full force with my own fist, causing my to bite down hard on the insides of my cheeks, and I was shocked (not scared, I knew it was an accident and we were playing) and started bawling right there on the spot. His mother looked at me with pity and glared at her son saying 'look T, you made her cry' and went on to explain to her eldest daughter on the phone (who she was talking to the whole time) what was going on. He held me in his room and comforted me...

But now he's scared to rough house with me! :( He's scared to death he'll break me! How can I convince him that accidents happen and what happened was okay? I still want to wrestle!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007):

Ur lucky as heck. I never get to wrestle with n e one... I wish I could. To get him to play wrestle with you again, I suggest u just jump on him and pin him until he starts to wrestle u again. =)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007):

Foxy boxing?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007):

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lol!!! I don't think I'm strong enough to wrestle professionally. I only weight like 110, and I'm 5'3. Not wrestler material.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007):

Maybe you could take up wrestling professionally?

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