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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:We've been dating for two years and he's still pushing me away. He never calls me up to spend time with him. Whenever I'd like to see him, I have to ask him and I only get to see him about 50% of the times I ask. I only see him about once a week.This past month, I took a job about one hour away from my home. The job is closer to HIS home (which is about 45 minutes away from my home) and as soon as he found out, he immediately told me that I better not be thinking about spending more time over at his place simply because I'll be working closer to him. I know him well enough not to even THINK about trying to come over after work, but I felt like he basically told me that he doesn't want me around. He treats me quite well, he's respectful and fun when I see him, but I feel that he wants me, but at a distance. He's never even told me I love you, and I felt like an idiot the two times I said it to him. He blames his past for his commitment issues, but I feel that he won't stop being afraid of commitment, or at least not during this relationship. Should I leave him?
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reader, canttoleratebs +, writes (29 June 2010):
I never ever like to tell someone to leave someone. However, after reading your story the first thing that it sounded like to me was he's just not that into you. I'm really sorry but, Im all for the empowerment of women everywhere. If you ever have to question if you should leave then you already have your answer your just looking for cofirmation. If you feel like you deserve more, if your tired of settling, and if you know your a great woman and anyone would love and appreciate to spend time with you, then you have your answer. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!
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