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Her parents beat her to stop her seeing me. How do I get her back?

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Question - (17 April 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2008)
A male Saudi Arabia age 30-35, *rOkEn-HeArT writes:

hey all,

first of all m very impressed abt dis awsome site , in which we can share our feelings to others, that a hope of mine that u may help me ,

come 2 the point

i had a gf and al things going well wid both of us , one day she said me tht "her marry is on july,2008

and if u can do any thing then comeon its the time "

she said me that 1 month ago and i tried all my ways to get her (remember m not in same country of her , we met on net ...)

her parrents knows abt me now and thats why they start beating my gf, bcoz she is in LOVE wid me,... NOW couple of weeks ago she said me " i want to breakup wid u , coz its not possible, i tried many times but its impossible, so plzz forget me , and find another girl,.... i wont come back again to u or talk to u so i will appriciate if u not call me" after she said she went off... but i never stopped to call her but i call her in limit (i call her twice a day (but she never picked my fone)) yesterday she picked my fone and she asked me "how are u ,.......i asked her why u left me whats up? did any one hurt u again? why u left me? .. she replied its not possible .....

now what i do next ? i really want her plzz show me a way how can i get her back i really love her and i always will b,... cant live widout her plzz plzz plzz HELP ME!!!

(soory for BAD english)

Broken Heart.../3

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A male reader, BrOkEn-HeArT Saudi Arabia +, writes (18 April 2008):

BrOkEn-HeArT is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hey again,

yup i agree also wid anon answer and i did try it , i tried to talk wid her parrents but they dont want to talk wid me.....

i m helpless from every side,

1) my gal isnt taking any help from police.

2) her parrents are'nt talking to me.

3)i did talked wid my parrents for help and after they listen they said 1 thing "FORGET HER"....

thanx guys for ur time to answering me , i appreciae tht

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

Forced marriage and beating your kids is illegal in the UK.

Tell her to ring 999.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, Isabella1974 Ireland +, writes (17 April 2008):

Isabella1974 agony auntI agree with the anon answer, why dont you try and talk with her parents and show them how sincere you are and how much you love her if she wont take any action from her parents. Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008):

You're Saudi which means you're probably Muslim. My guess is she is Muslim in the UK to. I noe it can be difficult but what about you talking to her parents? Show them you are sincere and maybe they will relent. I noe what it is to love and not to be able to be together because of simple things like parents religion etc but u really gotta do something be4 u lose her forever. I noe i wish i did. Hope this helps!!

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A male reader, BrOkEn-HeArT Saudi Arabia +, writes (17 April 2008):

BrOkEn-HeArT is verified as being by the original poster of the question

she lives in uk and im in saudia , but she dont want to take any action for her parrents .........she is going far away from me, m missing her more :'( day by day.... i dont know wht to do . thats why i asked for help and its my first ever help i asked from any one in my whole life, but it seems m helpless,............i dont know any thing but just i know is , I LOVE HER VERY MUCH...

btw, i appreciate u all for nice answers thanx...

Broken Heart

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A female reader, Isabella1974 Ireland +, writes (17 April 2008):

Isabella1974 agony auntSweety there is not alot you can do unfortunatly, but she should not be forced into a marriage. Her parents must have a very strong influence over her. Is there any chance she can get away? If not, then i am afraid there are not many options open to you. take care

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

Is forced marriage illegal where she lives? Report it to the police.

If she is not prepared to run away to live with you then there is not a lot you can do.

Talk to your parents and get their advice.

Good Luck!! xx

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