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writes:My gf is 6 months pregnant but we just broke up a couple weeks ago cause she was not feeling as loved as she used to with me. I started to let my resentments towards her get the best of me. We broke up last summer on bad terms and right after she went and slept with my ex roomate for the month of september. Then she came back to me and i took her back knowing what she did. I love her. She loves me and feels so bad for doing what she did even bought a trip to the bahamas for us, said she was hooking up with him for all the wrong reasons and didnt like him but loves me. Her and him together was my worst fear throughout our relationship cause right after we first hooked up she hooked up with him then came to me and we dated for a few months broke up and went back to him. I was devastated and its very hard to forgive and forget. My love was so strong but lately i started to lose it and she is 6 months pregnant with my baby. I dont want to be a visitation father but she wants a relationship of love. I dont blame her, i love her, its just my resentments are getting in the way...this is not the first time we had a break up or fight cause of my resentments..is it hopeless or is it possible..how can i make love to her like i used without thinking of them 2 together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): your gf runs to your roommate and then back to you. do you have an open relationship with her? how sure as you that this baby is yours and not her other lovers?
what do you love about her? that she runs around back and forth between the two of you. she is not the faithful type and i think you know it. she cares nothing about you except knows that you have been a fool time and time again to just get her back. she will never remain with you and she will continue to make you a fool. they say love is blind but maybe you need to see the light her. Run from the cheating whoring woman that she is. and so what if you are not in this kids life full time. be a parent whether full or part time but make certain this cheating woman stays the hell away from you. she is selfish and she is not faithful. be kind to yourself and kick her tot he curb. change the locks and move on. this woman is bad news. once a cheater, always a cheater and she will never change. if you still want to be with her, well you then only have yourself to blame for taking her back. you have been forewarned she will cheat until her last breath.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 June 2010):
 Start a new life together? Aren't you supposed to be too occupied with preparing for the baby to sit and think about these things? She wants to be with you. You want to be with her. The thing standing in the way is her going back and forth with the roomie and you, bad judgement on her behalf. But she's pregnant now with your child, I think she has got herself locked up together with you for life now.
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