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female
age
51-59,
*mmissworld
writes:Hello,I am in a relationship that is a mixed bag, good and challenging (like everyone, right?). I go to a group meeting daily, and there is a man I am attracted to, and there has been some light flirting (I think). He approached me Thursday, I was sitting alone, and he grabbed a chair, sat squarely in front of me about 3-4 feet away, said "hello" and smiled, I returned the gesture. He then asks, "where is your boyfriend?" I was so taken aback with this question, as he and I have not talked beyond simple "hello". I said, "huh?" and he repeated the question verbatim. I said, "I don't know" because I honestly did not know. He sat there about 3-4 minutes, fidgeting, and then got up and moved to a different seat. At the end of the meeting, he went outside, I then went outside about 4-5 minutes later, and on my way out he literally ran inside right by me, almost brushing me - just a few inches away.Earlier in the week I tried to step out of the building to take a call, and he was in the doorway and would not move out of my way to let me by, both on the way in and the way out.Is he flirting with me or just trying to be friends? Thank you in advance for your thoughts!Jen
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reader, shania  +, writes (6 February 2011):
 I think he's acting really strange judging by his actions.If you said to me that this fella was a teenager I could understand it but I presume he's in his thirtie's/forties? If he is then his flirting skills have alot to be desired. Also I would be a bit suspicious of his motives because he knows you have a boyfriend but that hasn't put him off. Do you want to be with your boyfriend? I think this other guy is interested in you but his "Getting to know you skills" are rather naff.
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