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Help needed in the sex department!

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Question - (28 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is rather embarrassing but I need some help in the sex department. My boyfriend and I have been having great sex for about 3 months now, but I'm always feeling like he does more for me than I do for him. I also have this serious phobia of giving bjs, and when I did try I didn't last 5 seconds. Does anyone have any good ideas on how to please a guy besides handjobs/hickeys/sex?

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (28 January 2009):

One big thing is a massage. Just but giving him a full body massage would be nice. Use you hands and kiss his back and I am sure he will love it. Also something that I consider very close is kiss and touch his face.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009):

There are loads of ways to please him! But skipping handjobs/hickeys/sex is kind of vague, there are lots of different ways of doing these things that can make, for example, just having sex seem like a different way of pleasuring him because you have tried something new when doing it. I won't go into details because no doubt some people will have some good input for you and I'm not good at phrasing it.

However, I posted this question- http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-just-gave-my-first-bj-and-i.html

And the answers on here might help you a bit with your phobia. Also, I was exactly the same about it. Just do what you feel comfortable with! xxx

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