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writes: Hi, i am a 14 yr old girl. i need advice on how to stop being so shy around boys i like! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Maybe you should try talking to boys the same way you talk to your friends. This can be quite hard... Say "Hello" to them, smile and relax. Hopefully if you relax you may find something else to say. Then talk to them about what they enjoy... find more about them!
I hope I have helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): ok my advice to you is it depends on a lot of things.
how you feel about the way you look too.
Do you think you are attractive-(I have the most trouble with that) and also remember boys are obsessed with sex!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): hey gurl i have the same problem its like you like them but then again you are scared to! just go with the flow and just talk to him and tell him how you feel!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): well i get the same way but im 13, there is this cute boy in my class but i think he is seriously! cute. but when you talk to boys dont look nervous try to be nice and laugh when he does something and talk get involved or else he probably will never notice you. dont get to to close cuz one friend of myn sorta found out i have a crush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): girl dont feel alone cause im the same way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2005): i was like you too some years ago, but once i reached about 16 i really 'came out of my shell'. I thought no boys in my school would ever like me but it turns out I was wrong, it helps if you are friends first then it makes it easier! but don't worry, you're still young!!!!
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A reader, Mandy, writes (1 March 2005): Hi there, I think in life especially at the age when you start to like boys, it can be difficult because you are shy. As you get older, you will find it easier to talk to boys as you'll have more things in common. All I can say is try to be yourself around boys, and sneak a smile occassionally, they'll soon get the idea that you like them. Good Luck
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A reader, Marilyn, writes (1 March 2005): You just have to realise, first of all that you shouldn't be worrying about things like that at your age, but being 14 once myself, I know you will anyway. You basically just have to have confidence in yourself, just act like you do when you're talking to your friends and family, boys will appreciate you being yourself (shocking isn't it)! As you get older, you will naturally become more confident anyway. Everyone feels the same as you, they may not show it, but they do. I'm sure you appear very confident to others! But the main thing that you must remember is that BOYS ARE SCARED TOO!!! Believe me they're all softies on the inside!
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