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Help!!!! Where do we go from here?

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Question - (19 November 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, *annabehiswife writes:

My boyfriend and I have only been in a relationship for a short period of time but we've been through a lot already. I miscarried recently and broke the news to him, I cried and he held me and kissed me. I think it hurt him too. He left and I asked why... he said he needed to clear his head how to get him to tell me how he feels.

Also he shared a secret with me and the way our relationship is we really don't get in to deep talks or discussions about ourselves so I feel like he did that for a reason but idk why.

I guess I'm just looking for some reassurance as to whether he'll stay with me now that he knows there's no baby?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2012):

It depends on the length of relationship, his personality was he looking fora steady relationship or just something casual ?

He may have mixed feelings, if he wasn't ready to be a dad, he may walk away as he may fear you falling pregnant again...

You did the rit thing in telling him, it's never easy.. Stop worrying about him though and get some support for you.. He'll either be there for you or he will walk away and at the minute no one can determine which that will be, so think of the worse thing and honey hope for the good..

Only time will tell here. You get support, someone to talk too. Get down to the doctor to for a check over ..

Take care

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