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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:It will be 5 years later this month that my boyfriend and I have been dealing with each other. During this time there has been many break ups. Ive been very loyal to him over the years never having sex with anyone else, just making friends for the most part. I no that when you look you will find, but if you no sometimes to want to be reassured. Another female let a message on his voicemail saying that she was trying to show him that she cares, I felt that it was the girl that we hooked up with while i was away at school 5 states over. But this was going on 2 years ago so my question to him was why is she still calling you. He claims that she doesnt call anymore. When i finally told him that i heard the message he still lied and I couldnt beleive that we was lying in my face. That hurt more then him actually dealing with someone else. This man actually told me that I didnt hear a message. I left it alone and have been distant from him since the whole thing started. Last night I hung out with a guy friend for a couple hours, which was merely on a friendship level we talked ate popcorn and watched funny movies, I just wanted to get my mind off my guy. During the time I was out I received 31 missed calls and several text messages saying he was at my house and calling me all types of names. Then when I did finally get home he shows up about a half hour after I got there throwing rocks at my window to wake me up I go outside and hes yelling asking me where I was and trying to get violent with me. I told him I was asleep the whole time and let my sister use my car to hang out with friends. I saw the anger in his eyes so I went inside the house before he put his hands on me. I have loved him so much and always stood by his side through everythign he put me through. Everyone around mee keeps telling me that we need a break from each other and I guess we are at the breaking point! What should I do from here??????
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 August 2010):
 A breakup is def needed here. Im not one for a "break" bc most of the time couples dont get back together after the break. Plus, if he got violent with you, cheated, lying, and 31 missed calls is just psycho that's a deal breaker for me. Is he controlling, and been violent with u before? Sorry dear, but its time to let this one go, u already know its to the breaking point and the damage is done he's proven that he cant be trusted and can potentially get physical with u. No woman should have to go through that. There's red flags here. I like the idea of u focusing on yourself, making friends, just relaxing, and maybe dating someone new.
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