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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have turned 17. I keep questioning myself many a times Why!I dated my ex for about two years. We had major break ups and patch ups.I dono if i still love him. When he cheated on me we had this break up. I met this new guy through a common friend. We liked each other. Got intimate but soon we stopped it. meanwhile my ex came back and we were sort of back.I kept on feeling guilty.I mean I know whom i liked. I loved my ex but so was my strong desire for the other new guy. I twisted and turned made a story and told my ex about the intimacy part but i told that the girl was my friend's best friend and she got intimate with a guy. We Sort of had an argument and then my ex starting doubting me and then kept on questioning me and every time i denied it. After a short while he stopped talking to me..I feel guilty about this, Dont wanna tell any1. And, I told my ex that its better we part ways. I told him dialogues and stuff. And he told me.. He cannot trust his girl when she spends private time with a guy. I told him we were just freinds now. Neither do we talk nor message. We hate each other. How do i forget him :(How do i forget whats happened with me :( I know i was foolish and immature. I've forgiven myself. Doesn't look like he'll return back :( And i donoif i still love him!
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 Forget about your ex, and forget about the new guy.. you don't really like either one of them enough... they are not right for you.
When you meet the right guy, there won't be no cheating and you won't be attracted by anyone else. The fact that you could be intimate with another man, but still leave him, shows that you don't love either him or your ex enough for either of them to be the right man for you in the long term.
You are young, there is no reason to tie yourself down, especially with a guy who has cheated on you, or a guy who you didn't love enough to stay with..
Be young and free and go talk to many men untill you find one that is perfect for you.
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