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female
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36-40,
*onelyLette
writes:Hi there I'm 23 years old and I've pretty much made a complete mess of my life. I currently live with my boyfriend who I have been with since I was 16 but we were broken up for a year until just a few months ago. We have a beautiful little girl who is 2 years old and I love to death which may be one of the reasons i've gotten into this mess. The reason my bf and I ultimately ended up breaking up is because he cheated on me while our daughter was only 5 months old. While my bf and I were broken up for a year I got in touch with a friend that my bf and I had both known back when we were teenagers. Well when we hung out the guy confessed to me that he has always had a thing for me and he kissed me and I found out that we have really great chemistry... so great that I had never felt it that strong before.. even with my bf. So for a few months I went out with and got closer to this other guy. As soon as I let my bf who was my ex at the time know what was happening he started acting like he wanted to be with me again. Well in my eyes the best thing for my daughter would be for me to be with her father so I dropped everything and gave him and I another shot. My life has been extremely depressing and sad since then. I think i'm in love with the other guy and my bf at the same time. My bf is a good father and I love him for that but we fight every single day and I feel like the bad outweighs the good, plus even when we first started having sex there was really never that much chemistry and we never did it as often as most ppl would. He is unemployed and were living with his parents and he gets drunk all the time and is dependent on marijuana to keep him in a good mood and when he's not watch out. The other guy has a good job a house he owns and says he loves me and will do anything he can to be with me. He has told me many times to leave my bf and come live with him and he will take care of me but in the back of my head I can't make myself pick one of them. I can't make a decision because i'm afraid I love them both and it's obvious what the best choice is but I want to do what will make my daughter happy and i'm afraid of the unknown I would be plunging into if I went and moved in with the other guy. Someone plz help bcuz I feel very lost...
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