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*arissalover1
writes:ok so my ex bestfriend was dating this guy a while back and the broke up with him because he was starting to act weird. i decided to get involved then befriended him.soon he started acting weird with me too and now he wont leave me alone. he keeps adding me and trying to talk to him and i've gone to my school about it, but now i dont know what to do! he's still talking to me and i'm starting to get really annoyed! Any ideas?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Always stay out of other people's business, especially when the situation has nothing to do with you. I know it's your best friend's situation but it wasn't your place to get involved in this mess.
I wouldn't call this harassment because he's not trying to disturb or upset you. More or less pestering you because he think you can get him back with your best friend. Or he's trying to pump you for information about her.
Tell him nicely to leave you alone, block him from all your social sites, and don't answer his calls. If he persists, threaten with him having your parents talk to his.
Hopefully, you learned your lesson to not get involved next time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): I think u can't really fully blame him for harassing and bothering u, because u chose to befriend him. However if he's acting really weird (I couldn't really tell what u meant by "acting weird"), be really clear that you don't like it, and if he won't stop, or if he's being inappropriate, tell someone. Like call his parents or something haha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): Inserting yourself in your friend's private business was a bad idea. And putting yourself on the radar of someone you had reason to believe was unstable was even worse. I don't know what you thought you could accomplish.
Block and delete him from any social networking site or email account. Block his number from your phone. If he contacts you in person or via mail, then call the police and find out what your options are.
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