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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me in June after six months together. This guy told me I was the love of his life, his soulmate and the girl he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. We had an amazing connection.He had never really had a serious relationship before me though and he said he was a bit afraid of being crap at a relationship. We were amazing together though and so so happy.He ended it because he said he felt like he wasn't as important to me as I was to him which was completely untrue. Anyway we ended and I left him alone for the first few days. Over the next month though he was constantly getting in contact with me and was begging me to show him how much I loved him. He begged me to 'put up a fight' for him. I truly did and things were getting back on track. Out of the blue though he ended it again and I decided that I was not going to fight for him again as I was completely drained from it all. He began to cry when I told him this and I told him I'd prefer if he didn't contact me because I wanted to start getting over him.Now though he is saying really nasty and horrible things about me to people and it is hurting me so much because up until this he always spoke about how much he loved me and about how he'd never have a bad word to say about me. He was the one who wanted this breakup, not me, so why is he being so vicious about me? He's telling people that I'm a psycho and that I'm obsessed with him! All I've done is leave him alone. I don't understand:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): He lost interest in you and gave you a lame ass excuse to make you feel better. all that soulmate talk in the first few months is over the top and not really real cuz guys will say anything to get sex and thats what hes still doing and trying to get. He just wants to see how far you'll go without giving you anything in return and now that you won't hes trashing you. be careful when some guy tells you that you are the love of his life and soulmates forever in the first few months. if you keep believing whatever that a guy says you'll get screwed every time, we know what you want to hear. move on. be smarter next time cuz you had this guy all wrong and you will pick another like him if you drool everytime a guy says soulmate or true love.
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