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He was dating one girl and flirting with another female. So why is he mad that the other female moved on and is dating another?

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Question - (4 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Okay, here goes! So you're a guy who's chosen one girl over another to be your girlfriend, however, you're still flirting with the unchosen one when your girlfriend isn't looking, and she likes you alot. So as her hopes dwindle of ever capturing your heart, along comes another guy and she becomes his girlfriend. So my question is: why is first guy mad at unchosen girl since she became another guy's girlfriend? Does he have the right to be mad that she moved on from him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008):

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It must be time to talk to him because I've been thinking the same all weekend, and then I read your reply. I'm so nervous, though, at the thought of approaching him about this and yet I DO need to know where things stand between us so we can get past this level. So, he will be making the decision whether I move on with another guy, or HIM.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008):

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Thanks so much for your reply. A few things you need to know. SHE stole him from me when she saw he was pursuing me starting in April (she knew him for over 2 years before I came along and never once was interested in him them). She knows that he really cares for me (I sense this cause of the way she acts when he sees me, and she won't even talk to me, looks the other way, and she and I were friends before this - some friend, huh?). Perhaps, though, you are still right with your suggestion cause 2 wrongs don't make a right. There's no way she would get a hold of the note, and I would deny it if anyone else found it cause I wouldn't sign it and would put it on his car discreetly, but perhaps it's too soon for a note. Maybe there's other ways of letting him know that even though I'm with another guy now that my heart and feelings are still with him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008):

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Sooooo, what do you think would happen if unchosen girl put a note on first guy's car saying I love U?

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