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writes:Ok, i am having a really big problem at the moment. A couple of years ago i fell in love with this man, he's attractive, funny, and a perfect gentleman, but i just didnt realise i had fallen in love with him, until he returned home. (He went away to london while i live in Yorkshire. Well we both did. He was my next door neighbour) The only problem with this is returned home, with a woman in tow. I recognised her straight away, she went to the same school as me, she was even in my year. He is 4 years older than us.The thing is, even though i should hate her, i don't. We became really good friends, and a few weeks back she told me, she wasnt really his girlfriend. They were pretending. I couldnt believe my ears, so i asked why. She told me that while she was in London she had met this man and she fell in love with him, but he didnt pay her any attention, because he thought she was a flirt. She isn't, i know that, its just because she is very beautiful. Men just swarm after her. So she said she was only pretending to date the man i love to make the man she liked jealous. I told her that she wasnt going the right way about it and i couldn't quite believe that my neighbour would go along with it. But i since realised that he is rather a lovable rogue rather than a perfect gentleman, because just saturday night, i can hardy breathe typing this, we were all at a party, me, him and my friend and while she was avoiding all the lads there, i went out into the garden, and he followed me. Well he kissed me thats what he did, said he wishes he hadnt started the pretend relationship, but that he had felt sorry for her. So what do we do now. Her parents think he is her boyfriend, my brother says that he is a bit of a player, but then again, he would, they had a falling out years ago, over a woman lol and the man i love, his sister says that she always had doubts about my friend. So what shall i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Why don't you confront him; tell him that your friend told you the relationhip is just a pretence; ask him why did he kiss you? He is the only one who can give you the real answers; then you will know and can decide from there;
I personally think this guy is messing around; but TALK to him.
Best wishes.
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