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writes:Ok so i have been dating this guy, lets call him J, since 9/11 of last year. I truly love him, with all my heart. He my total ideal guy. I really do think it was fate that brought us together, and i think that when we are older, i want him to be the one to take my virginity. When we are together my heart starts beating really fast and i just want to be as close to him as possible. We hang out every second we can at school and sometimes we hang out outside of school but not that often cause he lives out in the county and i always feel bad inviting him to do stuff cause i know its gonna be a bother to his parents to have to drive him all the way back to town. On the 11th of march it will be our 6 monthiversary and so far in those 6 months we have only kissed 3 times and they were all slight peck on the lips. He was my first kiss though :)Our first kiss was in my bffs backyard, it was her big B-day bash. There was like 20 ppl there, we were kinda in the pitch black corner part of her backyard. Some of my other friends, B, N, K, and M were back there with us but every1 else was on the other side of the yard around the fire-pit. It actually happened cause he was about to leave and i had told B and M about a bet i had made the previous night with a different friend that i would get my first kiss.I chickened out on telling him but M begged me to let her tell him, i finally said yes but i covered my ears out of embarrassment so i didn't have to hear her. when i realized she was done i looked up at him and he kissed me. This happen like 2 weeks after we started dating so i was pretty shocked he really did it. But that was how our first kiss went.Our second kiss was when 1 of my bff's C and I went on a double date with him and his step bro. We went to the movies and saw a movie that none of us knew much about but it was actually pretty good. Anyways, it was halfway through the movie and I look over and see J's step bro putting him arm around C and her snuggle up into him. Moments later J put his arm around me(4 the 1st time ever) i was cautious but i did snuggle into his chest.We looked over at C and his step bro and see them kissing. I was like "oo la la C" and C turned and glared at me playfully b4 saying "J shut put your girl and kiss her" so he grabbed my chin and pulled me toward him and kissed me. That was our second kiss.Our third kiss was at the winter dance at school. It was the last day b4 winter break started and the dance had just ended. We were standing there waiting on our parents and he was literally begging me to kiss him. for like the 10th time. We had slowed dance 2gether like 3 times and he had tried multiple time to kiss me then but i always turned. finally my mom called and said she was in the parking lot. i turned said goodbye and gave a quick kiss and ran. That was out third kiss.Now my problem is that he wants me to kiss him all the time and i really do want to kiss him all the time but i just cant bring myself to do it. I will not kiss him in the light, i refuse to because i get 2 embarrassed. And i don't want to kiss him in front of people unless they are my bffs. i feel like i am being really mean, but no matter how hard i try to push my self to i just cant kiss him in the light or in front of people. So what do you think i should do? plz help!
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reader, dezzi1210  +, writes (2 March 2011):
How do you feel when you do kiss him? I take it you enjoy it or you wouldnt keep doing it, so I suggest you keep doing that until you feel ready to kiss hims properly. If he's kissed someone before, he will teach you what to do, and if he likes you enough, he will understand that you're nervous and want to do it right. I'm afraid with kissing it really does take practice to build up your confidence. This was my problem; my first kiss with the guy in with now was after I hadnt kissed anyone for over a year, and I was worried that i would be rubbish and part of me really just wanted to leave and not kiss him at all. But I love him and knew I wanted to kiss him, so that part of me I let win and I just went for it. If your guy knows you're nervous he won't judge you even if you're not that great, but I'm sure that if you forget you're even doing it then you'll be more relaxed and therefore enjoy it more and most likely be a better kisser for it.Good luck :)
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reader, Jo-CX/  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 my bf and i kiss all the time even though i was shy.tell him that you'll love to kiss all the time but your a little shy.just take it step by step it will work out for the better.
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reader, The Girl with the Diver's Hair +, writes (21 February 2011):
OMG!!! That is the exact same thing with my boyfriend. We have been going out 7 months and kissed like twice. Because im really shy.
But im determined to make it work
Next time your with him just kiss him and tell him that your a bit shy when it comes to kissing. Thats my plan for this weekend :)
But im sure you will be ok.
Good Luck
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