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female
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36-40,
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writes: Please help... My partner and I have been together 5 years, we have 2 kids, are happy for the most part. We did a Justice of the Peace 2 years ago just for legal reasons, and pretented like it wasen't real (no rings, kept maiden name ext). So that one day we could have a 'real' wedding. Well, people found out, and now he even calls me his wife. He wants to wait until we have more money and have a fancy wedding, I want to do something now, I feel the longer we wait, the less it will mean. I have told him how important it is to me but he won't budge. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Hi Hunny,He obviously loves you very much, He calls you his wife and wants to make a special day of it for the both of you and the children as well. I think this is lovely. But if you are really worried then you must speak about your concerns to him and why your unhappy hunny, Im sure he is only saving for you and thinking a womans wedding day should be a day to remember I hope this helped a little TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE AND HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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