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He wanted to leave as friends, but later decided he wanted to give this LDR a try; 5 days later, no words from him!?

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Question - (24 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have known this man (he's 28), been friends for 3 years. About a year ago he went through a divorce and a couple months later began flirting with me. I didn't play back. He got excepted into this program (he's military), so I thought that we should get some people together and hang out before he left. I called him and to set it up and he ended up coming over to my place to hang out. We hit it off instantly!! I told myself he could hang out for a couple hours then he had to go...that didn't work. We ended up going out for the next 5 days. He said he never felt like this with his ex, I give him butterflies, he like everything about me, calls me beautiful etc...The best dates/times I've had. Well, the day before he was to leave for the program he wanted to just leave as friends, but then later said no he wanted to give this LD relationship a try. Now he's gone and no word from him, he answered his phone once and that was 5 days ago...Now nothing, no texts, call or emails....What is going on?????

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntHe may be really busy with his lifestyle, he's adjusting to it and needs to work out a time slot to contact you. Msg him and tell him that you are concerned about this, tell him that for a ldr to work you need a lot of contact! X

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A female reader, Legioness United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

Legioness agony auntMaybe he's just been busy? Or maybe you're being a bit too persistant in trying to contact him and it's scaring him off? Not saying that is the case by the way, just a thought :) the only real way you'd be able to find out is if you ask him about it, best bet is to wait until he contacts you :)

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