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writes: Hi. I am a 14 yr old who has been w/ a 17yr old guy who i love and adore( i kno u might think im a little too young to love but i do).. We have onlybeen togther for 3 months but have known each other for awhile before our relationship. When we started going out he was chaeting on me with another girl .. i knew but i loved him so much i didnt wanna let him go... i readlly loved him cuz i knew there was something inside of him that made his so special but i knew i could find it one way or another.Later onhe told me about his relationship w/ another girl and said he realized that i was special and diffrent and he said he was gonna change and make it up to me.Now, its been almost 3 months and he has completly changed.. he doesnt talk to any of his chick friends and either does he talk to his guy friends he calls me everyday and second as it seems.. but i have done something terrible.. and i need help!! Today, my bf left to go out of town for 17 days.. and i got w/ a friend of mine whom i truly dont have any feelings w/ him at all, but we had sex! And i cant help to understand y i did it if im inlove w/ someone who i dont want to hurt!! I need help!! i dont want to hurt my bf how he hurt me at the beginning..i feel like i cant do anything right!I need advise cuz i kno im not going to be able to keep such a dark lie.. and i dont want him to leave me cuz he said if i cheated on him he would leave me and he would go back how he use to be.. :( WHAT DO I DO?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): OMG! were in the same boat..only i'v been dating mine for 2 years..and he's 20....and i love him so much and just 2 day..CHristmas DAY!...i give another guy a bj!.how stupid! of me!..ugh and we got in troubel cus someone found out our relashionship and i can't see him talk 2 him! nothin..and i don't know how i'm gunna tell himm i feel for u..I don't even know what 2 do!.but when we started this relashionship!..he was engaged 2 anthoer chick..and they brok up and i got him..we've been through alot and really understanding..but i get a motercyle and a car and 500,000 dollers out of it at least when he dies..but i don't want it...!!! i want my Fiance and me 2 be happy and not cheaters i can't live with mysefl i want 2 die!..but i'm gunna pray about it!.cus i don't even understand the powers of him..but i know he is a mighty one..he's pulled me out of SO manny things..and just een ther..so i'm gunna talk 2 him tell he tells me what 2 do!..is what i'm gunna do!..and sersuly kido!..i fel just like u..and don't stress over it..just relax..and breath..take a lil talk 2 god..(WHAT CAN IT HURT)!..and do that for a while..and just talk 2 him tell him how thngs are..thank him fro everything..adn then ask for help!...it'llcome out so much better then you think!.trust me..adn i'll tell u how mine went also!..thank take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): It's not fair that he cheated on u in the begining and u forgave him and if u cheat on him he won't forgive u. I think u did a good job for getting him back. I don't wanna be mean but it was stupid of u to forgive him in the begining. He's a cheating loser. Tell him about what u did, and if he doesn't forgive u, then that's not fair to u cuz u forgave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): You are a little kid. You still have much to learn. Don't make this into a crisis (even if you think it is). Most of all, slow down. In time, you'll realize that you're were making too much of this right now.
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