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writes:Is he cheating again? I recently got back together with my boyfriend after having been split up for over a year because I found out he slept with another woman in our bed. He has recently been staying with me but I have warned him that I will find out if he does it again because there is cctv where I live (silly I know). He called me up on the phone, out of the blue and said that he thought the CCTV was "dummie" and that it didn't work, he asked me what I thought and I said I knew it did work. We got cut off so he called me back again to ask me whether I thought it worked or not and that he'd bumped into somebody outside who had told him it didn't work. I asked him why it mattered and he brought the conversation to a speedy end. Does this sound like he is up to his old tricks or am I being really paranoid? Please help.....
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (10 July 2006):
 He's obviously up to something. Not very good at what he does neither if he's stupid enough to actually ask you about it! The only time someone wouldn't wanna be caught on CCTV is when they're upto something dodgy (or some other crappy reason).
Anyway, I think you should take as your cue to get rid of him
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (10 July 2006):
 I would DEFINITELY keep an eye on him, especially as he has cheated before! You are right to be suspicious if he is making such a kerfuffle over the CCTV...Anyone else would just suggest you get it fixed! But the fact that he was so bothered about it he asked somebody he 'bumped into!.. - I smell a rat, and you have been very good to him, taking him back. You are going to be looking over your shoulder as it is, for as long as you are with him, and now, more than ever he should be not just honest with you - but SEEN to be honest. He ought to count his blessings and respect you now, and if he can't do that for you I would show him the door - (and how, "hey - it WORKS", as it closes behind him!!) There is only so much blind faith he can expect from you after his past misbehaviour, after all..good luck, chick, you deserve better than that.
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