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writes:i am 19 years old and im going through a situation where ive been with this guy off and on since my freshmen year of high school which was in 2002 and we finally stop going out september of 2007. well im still in love with him and wat not...he is my first love and i cant seem to get over him...i think about him constantly every single day...we was going out but he broke up with me to go with is baby mom...but the bastard told me we could still be together but on the down low. i didnt want to accept that so i took his offer anyways and went with him and started to go with someone else also. he found out and he broke up with me and continue going with him baby mom. now i feel so bad because now i dont barley have communication with him period. i dont know what to do with this. i think about this boy constantly! day and night. i went 2 days without eatting thinkn bout this guy....i think the whole situation is messed up because i gave him everything i believe. i gave him the world. we use 2 live together over the spring and summer of 07....a lot of my friends said that they thought he was running my life so i started 2 lose contact with them. i thought it was a jealous thing because a gurl told me i was going 2 go threw stuff like that...but afta he seen that i was listening to my friends and let them in our relationship he started to drifted off b/c he seen that i wasnt listening to anything he had 2 tell me. Also he seen that i was cheating on him which i wasnt i really was just talking to guys when it seem like he would abandon me to go and hang out with his home boys. i use to get mad about that all the time b/c i felt like if i choose u ova my friends must meen something but i ddnt know anything then b/c i was young. but i just need some advice from some ppl like what do u think i should do...please feel free to ask any questions! thank you!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 If you want to plant your love seedlings , you need to find the right suitable soil. If you plant on rocky soil, it won't grow or the plant that grow will be chocked for lack of nutrients or for the lack of space.
You need to find some one who can receive your love and reciprocate it.It is futile to waste your precious seedlings on to someone who does not know how to appreciate and value you.
Dig up the rocky soil in your garden and throw them away. Filled it up with those nutrient rich soil.Your garden will soon bloom with all those beautiful flowers.
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