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writes: hi friends.i actually neede some counselling.and before i forget id say thanks in advance.and now for my problem.i am from a middle class family.and i love to spend my time in my balcony.four days ago i was standing in my balcony with my half wet jumbled hair.as i had been just out of the bath .may be i was looking hot.but i didnt mean to look so! a boy passed from the street,and kept on looking back(at me).the next day again i saw him .and to my horror,he sent a flying kiss to me!i had not at all expected this.and now when ever he passes my balcony he keeps on turning his head and watching me.i understood he had fallen in love with me.then i didnt see him for one day and the next day when i saw him he was sharing an umbrella(as it was raining) with another girl whom i dont know.again the next day i saw him walking with another girl and he saw me watching him.again the next day i saw him having an ice cream with another girl and this time he kept on talking to the girl and stare at me at the same time!and today i saw him he was with another friend of his,he kept on staring at me . as these 4 or 5 days past i also started falling in love with him but the thought of his roaming with other girls disturbs me. is he a play boy?should i give him up and wait for some other boy to propose me or please advice what should i do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Msblessed  +, writes (1 September 2009):
 I agree with pinktopaz 100%
How can you love him you don't even know him, and he doesn't know you. What he's doing his called flirting. And he has no obligation to you your not his girlfriend so I wouldn't call him a player.
If you want to get to know him just talk to him, it's as simple as that.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 September 2009):
 LOL, can't hate a troll who uses Shakespeare. I wish I was a glove upon your hand so I could pinch your cheek!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (1 September 2009):
It's flirting, not love. If a boy shows you attention it does not mean that he's in love with you. Therefore, just because a boy shows you attention does not mean that you should fall in love with him.
I'm guessing this is a real question, although the way it's written sounds a bit sketchy, but you can either eventually talk to him since he's obviously showing interest, or you can continue to just stare at each other and think you're in love with someone whom you've never even spoken to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): Stop standing out on the balcony looking at him, waiting. (and don't tell me you aren't cos i shant believe it). You don't even know him personally so you can't judge, he may have a lot of girls who are friends, and btw he just sounds like a pervert now cos he keeps passing your window to get a peep.
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