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51-59,
*hurgold
writes:I have been dealing with this guy for 10 years with 1 year of us broken up. We got back together 2 years ago. I'm not the type of person to give up on a relationship. Today I found that my guy has signed up for single web sites, which i found out while we were broken up, but he is still checking to see if anyone has responded to his profile. I called him today and told him that i'm upset about it. He got mad at me and said we'll talk about it when he gets home. But i interjected and said "how would you feel if you found me on the same web sites?" He said he wouldn't feel good and that he would rectify it when he came home. I also think that those women are the ones on his phone that he forbids me to talk about, or as he puts it "I don't need to know anything about his "female friends"".I have 2 daughters and a grandson that I'm looking after, they don't belong to him. I also have an ailment called fibromyalgia. And right now I'm shaking. Thank you for listening.Shurgold
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): He should not be friends with other women. If he is friends with them, they shouldn't be the type of friends that he hangs out with one-on-one, but in a group setting.Start hanging out with male friends. Or even just pretend that you're meeting a male friend for coffee. See how he likes that.
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