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writes:I need help again! This past weekend I found my boyfriend's profile on a dating website. Its been there for a while but he has his profile unsearchable and he claims he doesn't have a membership. But, he also had favorite girls picked from this website that listed at 18 days ago. I confronted him on this and he just kept saying that he's not looking for anyone else and that he loves me and that he just wishes I would believe and trust him. Could he be looking for someone new or am I just overreacting and should I just let it go? Other than this, I'm with him every weekend and we talk everyday and we have a great relationship. There are no other signs of cheating either. Please help me! I love him way too much and I don't want to be hurt again by someone I'm dating. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Ask him to get rid of the girls and the website. If he loves you he will. You don't have to put up with that. What if you did the same to him. Have some favourite lads put to one side. Er - I don't think he would like that - do you? No - so point out to him how you feel and if it doesn't end then you need to review this situation.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): The fact that he has his profile up on a dating website and has added "favorites" as recently as 18 days ago, is very suspicious. If he means what he says about not looking for anyone else, why is he adding women and why is his profile still listed? If he goes ahead and actually DELETES his profile then I think you can believe what he says.
However, if he does not, then you need to think twice about whether he is sincere in telling you he loves you.
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