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*nn84
writes:Dear Cupid, I have been talking this guy almost 3 months.. we working the same place both of us said we liked each other. Also we only once a time go out. I asked him 3 times to hang out with me. He made an excuse... Now he lost his phone last Friday. On Saturday he said me he is gonna call me when he took his phone.. but I called him (private number)... and he answered. He still didn't call me.... I don't understand if he doesn't call me or doesn't keep his promises by saying I am gonna call, why does he behave closely to me in the work?What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, ann84 +, writes (19 April 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGuys,
He wanted me to give him one more chance....I ve talked with him in the work.and i said him eventhough u said me u lost ur phone, when i called ur phone from private number,u answered..he said me nope i havent got my cell yet.idk how it is true and he said me dat why do i lie u?..and i said him dat i dont want to see him anymore no friends no relationships..he was sorry and wanted me one more chance and he said me dat he wont let me down..but i dont trust him.cuz also he told me his ex.his ex cheated him so dats why he doesnt want to be hurt from anyone... and id i date with u, u will compare me and ur ex.. no i said i cant give u chance..he said pls help me....like dat but i dont trust him.he will get his phne next wednesday.. i gave him my number cuz he said me he is gonna call me from house number..ater we talked I emailed him dat sorry I see dat u are not ready for relationship..and i dnt want to be hurt like ur ex hurt you..if u loved me ,everydhing could be different.
GUYs idk whether I did corrrect or not.... I wish everything could change...I wish he loved me more like he loved his ex...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): don't waste your time chasing him you deserve someone who will love and respect you and he's not being honest from the beginning
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): The only thing you can do is talk to him directly. I mean we can guess all day long but you will need to get to the bottom of this.
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reader, ann84 +, writes (15 April 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut if he really wanted to keep in touch with me, he could send me an email and get my number...
actually i have never thought what armymedic said cuz he refused me when i asked him hang out..he may have a girl friend....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): Yes I think maybe you are looking on the bright side, but you are right, things like that do happen. Maybe give him a chance to explain himself. But afterwards, if you do continue a relationship with him I would be cautious and keep my eyes open for more little dishonest behavior.
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reader, ann84 +, writes (15 April 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok.iam gonna ignore him.but what if he asks me why dont u talk with me?and maybe he just save my number to his cell phone not his card.when he lost his cell, my number has gone maybe i am looking on the bright side?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): Like ArmyMedic said, ignore this one. He sounds like a player to me! Already he isnt honest to you? I mean if you feel the need for closure you can ask him about it but I would just let it go and find someone who doesnt lie.
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reader, ann84 +, writes (15 April 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok.what if he asks me why dont u talk with me?
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Ignore him in work, and don't go chasing him. He obviously has some reason not to talk to you outside of work, like a wife or girlfriend.
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