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writes: Hey Guys I have a question okay here it is.I have been with this guy named Sam for about 5 days he popped the question over the phone last night and we are 2 years difference in age he is 17 and i am 15 he lives in seatle i am in texas and we plan to get married after he gets out of college when he is 21 and i am 19 what should i do please help xoxo christmas
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe are broken up forever
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reader, peacedreamer  +, writes (19 August 2007):
Ok, first of all, how can you know that you want to spend the rest of your entire life with someone after only one year, much less one week. I have been with my current guy for 2 years and for the first year I was madly in love with him. I have opened my eyes since and realized that he isn't the guy I dreamed he was. We were living together after only being together for 3 weeks. I can't stand him. I think he is the biggest jerk I have ever met. He is selfish, lazy, and a complete butt! Even if he were great, the rest of your life is a long, long time. Take your time. You are in no rush and if he is, there is probably a reason he wants to rush into things, like he knows once you get to know him you might change your mind. Think this through and really get to know him. People usually aren't who they pretend to be. There are things people hide about themselves for a long time that only come out gradually with time. My guy is an alcoholic who is abusive. Physically, mentally and spiritually. he told me he only drank to have a good time. His idea of a good time is spending all our mortgage money on strippers and booze, then coming home and destroying our house and my body. He was sweet and attentive and pretended to be caring at first, but I was so in love with him and so happy to be in love that I didn't see who truly was and now I feel I have no way out. Best of luck. I hope you take your time, he may be your prince charming, but he might be a toad, only time will tell.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (18 August 2007):
 I don't mean to be nasty babe but i really think you need to wake up, you live miles apart i am guessing with the short time you have been together you have never even met each other and he has asked you to marry him.
How exactly did you meet him?
I would be very wary if it was over the internet because it could be very possible that he is not who he says he is and he could just be trying to gain your trust.
Wait till you get some more advice it might be that i am being cautious but it all seems a bit weird to me.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): I'd just see how things go, see if you still feel soo storngly by the time your 19 xxx
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reader, RebeccaT +, writes (18 August 2007):
I think you age is tyo young and he sounds like a freak.
For the moment you can get on with your life and have fun without worrying thatb hell get to hurt when your not free youll miss it.Doint do it
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