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writes:I've been seeing a guy for 2 months, we've spent alot of time together, and got on so well. I've fallen for him big time. Thing is he's from another country, and has now gone home. I'm going to move over for a year to stay with a friend in 5 months. We talked about having a long distance relationship, but neither of us really wanted that. But we both agreed to meet up when i'm over there, and give it a go together. He's now left, and its been 4 days and i've not heard a word from him. Worrying and getting paranoid that i won't hear from him again. The connection between us felt so real and meaningful. Am i over reactting only giving it four days?
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reader, Abigail +, writes (4 February 2007):
I have also been with my boyfriend for two months and I've fallen completely for him so I can appreciate how difficult this must be that your man has gone abroad. My boyfriend is from America and if he went back now I would be absolutely gutted. However, 2 months isn't too long in the scheme of things, and if it's not going to work out, it's best to find out now before things get further down the track and more serious. I presume you can phone or email him - I always think it's better to ask someone straight out what the situation is rather than worry. Maybe give it a little longer, if you haven't heard from him within a week-10 days or so, ask him straight out what he's thinking and how he feels. I hope that things work out for you, but if he doesn't want to continue the relationship now, it's best to find out sooner rather than later. Good luck.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (25 January 2007):
 Give it a little longer as you are right, 4 days is not a long time but if he does`nt want a relationship now the reality of going home has kicked in then there is nothing you can do about it.
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