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writes:I need to know how to rise above my situation. I was in a long distant relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months, we've now been together for 10. I've only got to see him three months out of the whole ten months we've been together.I waited 8 months for him, because I love him and I figured when he came back this summer, that he would be here for good, but our relationship started to have problems, and it was a whirl wind. He does alot of drugs, and lives in a very unstable enviroment. So his uncle said he would take him under his wing, and he left today to a whole other province. We were actually broken up for two weeks before yesterday and thats when I spent the night with him.It's really funny how you can just forget everything that has happened, when you know that person is actually walking out of your life, then you feel sorry for all the stupid little fights, all the things that went wrong. You just wish you could back and change it and cherish the time you have spent together.I can't stop crying.. I basically feel empty and hopeless. I don't know how we could possibly save our relationship from this now. He may never come back except for visits. I miss him so much and I can't think of anything else right now and with school coming up, this should be the last thing on my mind, but I know it's going to be the first. What can I do?
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reader, Kaykayy123  +, writes (6 September 2009):
 Sigh.. :( i know how that feels, i was in a long distant relationship for 3 years, and the first year was great but for the rest of it he did drugs, alcohol, always staying out with his friends (atleast, thats where i think he was) always getting his mum to tell me that he wouldnt be back for a while and it'd go on for ages, i think,my only answer to this is, guys put on a fake mask and they do it too well,you have two choices, you can either move on, and forget about him (harder done than said, i know)or, talk to him about it, tell him you want to wait for him if he's willing to wait for you.
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