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writes:Hello, I'd just like a little advise on a situation im in at the moment. Basically me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 years and they've been brilliant but more recently, he has become extremely interested in a computer game which now seems to dominate our relationship. I do not want to stop him from doing something he enjoys as we should all be able to have our own time but its to the extent that he plays. The real problem for me is the fact that he has suddenly changed and not seeing me now as often as we used to isnt a problem for him. I've asked if he's bored in the relationship and whether he feels we dont belong together anymore but he always reasures me thats not the case. By playing the computer game, it has meant that he has let me down on certain occasions, for example sending me a text and saying he is not going to come over on that particular night because he feels if he comes away from the game he will miss out. I dont know if im being unfair by expecting him to come away from the game more often or whether i should just leave him to his own devices. So yeah, if anyone can give me any advise on why they think he may be being like this etc that would be much appreciated. Thanks.
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reader, aunt wendy +, writes (23 March 2007):
i dont think you should ask him to choose because we all have our pastimes that we enjoy and asking him to choose would be wrong and selfish,i think the way you should handle this is by having a talk and ask him to cut back a bit so you can both spend your time together.
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