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anonymous
writes:So its been 3 months im crushing on this guy whos driving me nuts. It started off in december 2010 as i started seeing me constantly at uni, i couldnt take my eyes off him! I try to grab his attention, talk to him on facebook and try to catch him up everytime i see him walking by at uni. My friends threw me a surprise party and he was there, all the time i was sitting next to him, i made it pretty obvious that i like him. I even sent him a msj 2 weeks later telling him that i think hes sexy! We went on a group camping in a desert, and while the music was on we started dirty dancing.I was expecting a msj from him by the next day but nothing was there. Till this day i try to grab his attention it just doesnt work, i really like him alot, if i can only get him to notice me! Im pretty sure i made it clear that i like him.
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reader, TrustInYou  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Dear Ignored,
Please don't be offended by the name. Okay, now you may have told him and made it clear that you like him, but what you did wrong is tell him that you think he's sexy. That kind of thing makes a guy run. Try sitting with him at lunch, or invite him to a party with OTHER people. Doing this will make him feel that bond again.
~ Love, Just Me,
TrustInYou
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Yeah it does sound to me like you have made it very clear to him, and it also sounds to me that he is liking the attention. I think you should just send him a message and ask him does he want to meet up some time for dinner or a drink and see how he responds. At least then you will get the answer you are looking for and if he doesnt respond well then hunny I guess it is best you try to move on from him. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): Well, seem's like you've made it abundantly clear that you like him. What you need to realise is that much to our dismay these kind of attractions need to both parties.
You might just not interest him as much as he interests you. It's a tough thing to learn in life, but ultimately we can only be ourselves and shouldn't beat ourselves up if thing's don't go to plan.
You're best solution is to stop contacting him and just give it some space.. alternatively you could just take the first step and ask him on a date. This'd force a direct yes or no from him. If it's a no then at least you know for certain he's not interested. If it's a yes, then happy days :D
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