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writes: Hi im 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20, I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a few months ago, he apologised and said he would never do it again, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and love him dearly, he has decided to go on 2 lads holidays, one is in magaloof I cant stop thinking about how he cheated on me before and why wouldnt he do it whilst he is on holiday, he doesnt like talking about what he done before, he just kissed the girl. I have left a lot of my friends for this guy and lately I have been getting myself down thinking about him cheating help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): well if he really loves you he wont cheat! trust him! however i thou my BF loved me and cheated on me on holiday! also this summer (i was single) i got with this lad i really liked him got back home and found out he had a GF
Men are nasty at times!!! lol
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reader, lovin +, writes (15 January 2007):
hi im 17 nearly 18 the last thing you want do do is get urself down worring bout it boys will be boys and you cant stop him from cheating but dont jump to quickly coz he mite not even be thinking bout it if you tell him how you feel it mite be best dont say u know or dont trust him coz he will think wot the hell if she doesnt trust me!!!! just sit him down explain you dont want to share him and how you feel bout him! then all you can do is trust him but dont sit in worring bout it go out have fun like him!!!! hope everything goes ok gudluk xxx
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reader, Tinkz +, writes (15 January 2007):
Men dont think at the best of times!
You said he doesnt like talking about it, i think the best way to find out if he will cheat again is to bring up his cheating, see how he reacts, if you feel he is really sorry then take is word but if you have the slightest doubt tell him!
You either trust him or you dont!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): This is a tough one. Sorry but I generally think that once a cheat always a cheat, i know this is not what you want to hear. You either decide to let him go, bury the past and just trust him. or End the relationship because the whole thing is hurting you too much. I think you will know in your heart how you feel. If you two do stay together then you both need some tough talking and he has to behave himself or else!!
Take care
xx
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