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*earheadedgirl
writes:I'm in the middle of a dilemma. I'm with my live in boyfriend of almost two years, and we have a great relationship. He recently told me that he's head over heels in love with me, and that he has decided that he wants to be with me forever. There's only one thing.I recently found him on Nexopia. I've followed his posts for a while, and found that he seeks out pretty girls on the website, and then agressively flirts with them. Now, I have to say to his credit that he never asks them sexual questions, or makes sexual innuendos, and he does not ask them for racy pictures or visa versa. And when asked directly about his relationship status, he will tell them that he has a girlfriend. This is why I'm having a hard time with this. I just don't know what to think about it. He is not technically doing anything wrong, but I'm a woman, and I cannot help having slight feelings of hurt over it. Is it a sign that he's not satisfied with me?
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reader, Jen1689  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 Definitely call him out on it. My ex-boyfriend used to do that kind of crap on MySpace ALL the time. I caught him doing it and mentioned how it bothered me, but he didn't stop. Soon, he had made a fake profile so that he could chat sexually with these girls. Then he had set up a fake e-mail account where he could be sent nude photos of them. The internet is never a good place to do flirting, because it's one of the easiest ways to hide it. I'd definitely speak to him and tell him that you don't appreciate it and that it makes you feel disrespected. It doesn't matter what the action is, if it makes you feel bad, say something. Or your relationship won't last...
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