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writes:What should you do if you think the guy you are dating has commitment issues? Is it something that could be resolved on its own? Is therapy needed or is the guy just plain hopeless?Thanks for the replies!! Reply to this Question
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 The guy is hopeless if there are no reasons what so ever.. If it is because he has some family problem, a bad past etc. Then things would be different.. Please throw light on what exactly are his issues.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): Your delima is a common one, however, there is not really enough information here to determine if he has commitment issues....we don't even know the length of your relationship.
That said as a general rule, men don't commit until they are ready to commit, you can't ask him first, you can't push him about it or he will just get farther away from you. Commitment comes in its own time, but if he is telling you he wants to remain single or date other people then take him at his word. No amount of love or nice things you do for him will make him change his mind....he isn't looking for that.
If that is what you want, better look elsewhere or be happy to date him casually.
Best of luck.
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reader, SeaShell  +, writes (13 December 2008):
Hi,Depending on how bad his commitment issues are I think this problem could be resolved between the two of you.Have you tried talking and questioning him about this? Hopefully this should not result to therapy! lol x
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