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writes:I could really do with some advice. I'm going out with this guy for nearly 2 years and I'm a bit confused about him. He says he loves me but rarely shows it. He has a nasty temper but he has a nasty mouth on him. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him. I do everything to try and make him happy but it's never enough.. I do love him but he needs to change. I was hoping someone could give me a bit of advice on how to make this situation better Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): To be honest, I'd be out of this relationship ASAP. He obviously doesn't trust you, and your relationship should not be about you constantly proving your fidelity. It's a dating relationship, you haven't made any lifelong commitment, and to be honest, you don't have to put up with this treatment. It's possible that he could change, but the behavior he demonstrates could be early signs of abusive behavior, in which case change is improbable. I know it could be hard to leave, especially if you love him, but you really have to think about what is best for yourself. Best of luck, hope everything works out.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 I agree with yummy Mummy, the bottom line here is he needs to change.
He can't go on treating you like this showing you his bad temper and nasty mouth. It sounds like you are the only one trying your upmost to try to make this relationship work and this can't go on, because if this goes on you will only feel resentment further down the line. He also sounds like he has got alot of insecurity issues which is why he accuses you of cheating on him.
If you really want this to work then maybe you should both have some counceling to help get you both on track.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (19 June 2007):
 He needs to change, end of as his behaviour is unfair. He may need anger management classes or something like that. Have you tried talking to him about why he gats the way he does?
If he isn't prepared to change then you may have to think about ending it if you are that unhappy.
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