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He has 7 women on the go and I gave him 2 BJ's...he's an idiot so why do I have feelings for him?

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Question - (21 December 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Well..i sort of started things with my driving instructor..(i know its wrong) i gave him a Blowjob well 2 blowjobs and now all he sees me as is a shag and i see him as a shag, and plus apparently he has 7 women on the go (as he says).

Any way ill cut to the chase.. i dont wanna be his girlfriend or anything but everytime i have a lesson i feel sick and nervous and i dont know why, and all my friends think hes a prick and i should get rid of him because he gloats about all the girls hes had, and i know he is an idiot and i stick up for him i fancy him loads but why do i get these feelings for him?/ help me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006):

You don't have enough self esteem; therefore, you'll accept this undesirable relationship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006):

Just get another driving instructor - he's abusing his position as an instructor as well as everything else. I mean you have said you dont wanna be his g/f so then don't give him any more b/job's or have anything to do with him. Also he has no respect for you or any of the other girls he's had if he's goin around bragging about them and what he's done or they have done to him!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006):

Its normal to have feelings for someone you know you shouldn't or dont want to. I think the only way you can get over these feelings is to completly shut him out. Get a new instructor, and maybe try to focus on finding someone else and try to keep your mind busy because deep down you do know his not the right guy. good luck xx

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A female reader, sunny-glow +, writes (22 December 2006):

You just answered your own question! he's an idiot yet you gace him a BJ twice and your discomfort around him means you just need to get away. Why be around a low life anyway?

it was just a silly thing you did and it's ok so just Move on and do better

Cheers

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