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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:SO me and my boyfriend both have very conflicting schedules. On weekdays, either I have school, or he does, or I have work, or he does. And on the weekends, he works on Saturdays and usually plays hockey and bowling on Saurday and Sunday nights. We live around an hour apart from each other so we don't see each other that often. The only day we see each other is on Fridays, after his class and before he has dinner at home, so around 3 hours a week.Today he told me that he wanted to go bowling with his friends on Friday. I told my bf that I didn't really feel like going bowling with his friends, and then I got upset. Eventually he agreed to come hang out with me on Fridays like we usually do. I am still very upset. I am upset at the fact that it doesn't seem like it matters to him whether he gets to see me or not. I already give him lots of space and let him do his own thing 6 days a week. All I'm asking for is my 3 hours a week, and he doesn't even seem like he cares. Am I over-reacting here? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Well no love, 3hrs its less than an part time job one day a week! Hunny you need to talk with him seriously If he calls that a relationship then im having a relationship with my rabit...Sweetheart of course you want to see a little more of him talk with him and try not to get upset both your work loads are quite full so when you can grab him just say the only reason you get upset is because you miss him and you dont mind him having space but there is space and the universe (dont say that love thats my stupid humour) Just try and get your point across in a loving way like the next time you see him wear something that will make him never want to leave Im talking drop dead sexy here and just act quite normal as if you had just thrown yourself together and make sure he gets the idea at the same time while you have your little talk love, message me if you want a chit chat TAKE CARE OF YOU HUNNY LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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