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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I are only 16 we have been sexually active for about 6 months and we never had any problems....until now.It started when he was sick we were in the middle of sex and his penis slipped out, i went to put it back in and it was completely soft n he couldn't get hard again. So we thought it was because he had the flu. But then 2 weeks later the same thing happened. I thought cheating at first, but i would definitely know if he was. He said he thought it was maybe because we have sex in the same place, my bed and the same position, him on top. We never really switch it up, sometimes I'll wear a little outfit or something but never really change the position or the place. So i was just wondering if that could be, mentally what it is, not that he's bored with me because he gets hard when were messing around, but that maybe he's bored with the intercourse part of it? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 February 2008):
 Two times? I don't think you should be concerned about it yet, but would suggest a bit more variety - woman-on-top, possibly a little oral stimulation if you will, try the couch? The possibilities are endless, actually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): Is his anxious about sex? Does he masturbate frequently? How often do you have sex? If you're over doing it maybe his little man can't cope with it all.
Does he watch a lot of porn? In my experience the guys I've been with that have been heavy porn watchers can become conditioned to expect a little more from sex, you know stockings, heels, coming on faces...
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