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He fingers me but I can never climax, what's wrong here?

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Question - (12 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2007)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i'm 16. i have a boyfriend and we are quite serious. i am a virgin though. he fingers me and i never reach a climax. it takes me sooooo long to have an orgasm. dont know what to do. whats wrong here?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007):

have him lick on it that will work good

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007):

There is nothing to worry about. As you grow up and experience other g-spots you will realise that maybe youre not the fingering type. I have had a healthy 8 years sex life, and not once did I ever have an orgasm through fingering. Some women prefer sexual intercourse.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007):

Females have 3 g-spots. One by the clitoris, the other two are inside of you. Some women cannot reach climax with their clitoris. They reach orgasm in other ways. Like sexual intercourse. Then there are women who cant reach climax when there is sexual intercourse but do when their man fingers them. I have had a healthy sex life for 9 years now, and not once have I ever climaxed whilst a man is fingering me. But yet I have an orgasm everytime I have sexual intercourse. There is nothing wrong with you, and in time you will see that you are worrying about nothing.

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