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writes:can someone please help me?? xokay im 12 yrs old nd i go to a school in milton keynes...i have a great relationship with my tutor...i tell him everything..nd i feel like i can really trust him..then i had a tutorial with him nd he told me nd my mum that he was leaving at the easter holidays to go to a better school were he will be head of the music department nd earn more money...then friday came..the day he was leaving..nd in tutor he brought sweets nd told all of us htt he will miss us and that...then it was time to go home...everyone in my tutor was giving him hugs nd i cud tell he was feeling uncomfortable cuz he was sitting down etc...i diddnt hug him cuz i felt uncomfortable so i jst walked out..but i cudnt jst go nd not say bye to him or anything so i waited untill he came out..then we went into his music office nd we both agreed tht now hes not my tutor anymore thets tlk unprofessional seening as its our last chat...so we spoke for a while. then i told him tht i wished he was the dad iv never had (my dad isnt exacly a gr8 farther figure) nd he sed he sees me sometimes as a doughter! nd tht wen u get to no someone in the way he new me u start to care for them..anyway skipping on...it was time to go..then he put out his arms nd w hugged! for like 5 mins...i cud tell he was upset...nd i was too! then tht was it... i diddnt ask to stay in contact cuz i was to scaired...nd now weve hugged i feel closer to him! i feel like hes more of my dad now because iv never ghad someone liek tht care for me the way he does... nd ino im never gna get a hug like that again cuz im never guna c him again!!! im tairing apart!!someone plz help me! i feel like iv lost the 1 person i trusted nd felt closer to LIEK A DAD! x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 April 2008):
Oh sweetie I'm so sorry that you lost this person. It's so great to have someone to rely on.
This is exactly like if someone in your family died. You are going to feel very sad for a long time but you will get over it.
Why not ask your real dad if you could do something together at the weekend? Is he into anything like football that you could go along to?
I bet your real dad doesn't realise you want more from him. He probably thinks that now you are a teenager you don't want to talk to him any more.
You just have to keep thinking that you were really lucky you met this teacher. Your time was great although it wasn't long.
Go out and go shopping and do lots of things to distract yourself. It will be ok.
Good Luck!! xx
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