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writes:Why is he being funny with me? I met him last week,and he seemed really keen. He is 29 and im 18 but im fine with this and so is he.. but on saturday i ended up at his house and i gave him oral i felt a bit guilty because i told him i was gonna make him wait, The next day he told me he felt like he used me and feels guilty i said dont worry whats done is done.. now he bearly texts me and in the texts he is funny with me and i dont know why as he used to text me nearly every minute of the day, i dont know what to do im worried please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): Just give him space, he could be thinking the whole thing over as there is an age difference. But I wouldn't bother chasing him. If he doesn't contact you again no worries. In future if you are looking for a relationship then it's best not to have sex with guys when you barely know them. Try and establish a friendship with them first and it will save you all the heartache.
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reader, stina  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Hi there Kez,
Since you've only known this guy a week, are you sure that what he told you is true? Do you really think he feels bad that he "used" you? I'm wondering if he's okay about what's happened and is saying this to get rid of you because he got what he wanted. At the same time, he doesn't want anyone to think he's a jerk, so he's made up feeling guilty about things. That's just the first thought that came to my mind.
If he really does feel guilty, then you need to give him his space. You've already told him what's done is done so he knows your stand on the situation. I think that it would be a good idea to wait for him to call you back to discuss things further with him, because if you keep trying to contact him he might just end up feeling worse about things.
Give it time. If he wants to talk, he'll contact you. If he doesn't, then I really think you are better off without this kind of person in your life.
Take care.
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