A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi everyone! so heres my problem, im a single mum to a 2 year old. i met a man 4 month ago who has a 8 year old son. i really like this man. we started dating in march for 8 weeks and i started getting feelings for him until he told me he didnt have time for me as he has 2 jobs and his son. i havent dated anyone since him. he still texts me nearly everyday with loads of kisses and smiley faces on texts to me. we live close by to each other but the thing that gets me is everytime i walk past, he stares at me out of the window and if he is going out in his car he pulls back onto the drive till im out of sight. is he watching me to see if im with anyone? does it sound like he still likes me? thank you[Mod note: punctuation added for clarity; apologies if any errors were made.]
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (16 July 2011):
 No time for you bullshit. If he doesn't have time then why bother looking for women to date? He is teasing you with romantic emails. Tease him back by flirting with him until he's frustrated with blue balls that he can't get the real thing. The point is to be lighthearted and flirty but not initiating contact. The job is his.
Tease him next time he's watching you. Let him know that you are not angry, because this is what he's expecting. Let him wonder what you are thinking. Show him that he can't control your emotions. Flirt with him and touch yourself, then close the curtains. I bet he will suddenly make time for you. One tip for you is never take a man's words literally.
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