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*isssis15
writes:I'm dating this guy, but there an age difference between us, he loves me and I love him very much we've been together for a year and a half, he has a problem complimenting other girls and expects it not to bother me...am I in the wrong for getting upset when he does it?? Reply to this Question
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reader, SusanNLuv +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Honestly, I would be upset. I think that It's different between each couple. You just can't let someone else tell you not to get upset. It's natural. It's your right. This is your relationship and It's about your happiness. Tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If you guys are in a serious relationship he really shouldn't be looking around that much and he should respect the fact that you don't like it. That's just my opinion. It's different to comment "she's pretty" every now and then..but not all of the time, that seems disrespectful.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2007):
 I wouldn't get upset over this UNLESS he never compliments you. Also if the compliments are friendly and in good taste then I wouldn't mind. But if he is embarrassing or never tells you how nice you look, then you have every right to clean his clock.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): to be honest i think you should just be glad you have such a nice boyfriend who is friendly and respectful to women. you're being insecure which is natural but thats all it is. he's with you, remember that next time he compliments someone and you get annoyed
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