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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I’ve been with my bf for 5 months and recently started having sex with him. I was a virgin and he wasn’t. I enjoy it so far but I find that he doesn’t last long enough. He fingers me first but I like actual sex with him a lot more and I’d like to experience what he’s experiencing at the same time as him. But he comes too quickly while I’m just starting to get into it. The other night I got on top of him to control things a bit more and as soon as I’d slid onto him he came…he apologized but was saying that it felt too good. Am I doing something wrong or does he need to learn to control himself? I was a virgin before this so I don’t really know if the problem is me or him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): have your bf masturbate before you's get together. he will last longer. depending on his stamina, and all guys are different here, you may even get him off with foreplay, then he can spend a little time on you while he "recharges".
morale of the story: don't let him start your date with a loaded gun!
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