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writes:i was with this guy for 8 yrs and then a year and a half ago I caught him cheating with his ex wife. he left and i moved out,and since then we have became friends with benefits. what i would like to ask is, i want to end it but i do not know how , how do i tell him it is ended?please help i dont know what to do i still love him and care but i know he does not.i want it to end.
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 You don't have to tell him. Show him! Stop the FWB relationship and dissapean, avoid any contact with him. That's the only way to let go of someone you love. Best of luck!
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (12 December 2009):
I think if i was you i would say to him that he has treated you like crap and you dont want to see him anymore. Tell him not to visit and not to call. Tell him to leave you alone completely and you dont want to see him again. Tell him he is a waste of your time. But also remember he wouldnt use you if you didnt make yourself available to be used. Just end it and dont take him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): Hiya. I guess the FWB wasnt just extended to you then if he was still doing that with his ex! Why reward bad behaviour? End it now and move on from this man. In total you have already wasted NINE AND A HALF YEARS with a guy who cheats. If that isnt reason enough to say goodbye i dont know what is. Tell yourself you deserve better and dump his sorry butt x
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