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writes:I have beeen married for 8 years with 3 children and now am 7 months pregnant. My husband has cheated on me for the past 10 months while i was away working on a project abroad. and has a child with the other woman, He claims he cannot leave her because of the child. I am so confused by the betrayal and dont know how to handle the situation. please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): Kick this arrogant bastard out of your life. Why do u put up with this? Why are u waiting for scraps from this man? Get rid of the cheating bastard once and for all. Tell him to get out and not come back after all he has already left you. Your post makes me so cross. Stand tall, and have convictions and please do not allow him to treat you in this way. You deserve better, so much better.
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reader, cuteMum +, writes (21 July 2010):
cuteMum is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI tried talking to him about our marriage status, but he would become so angry and would leave to go and spend the night at the OW place. He claims we are still married but he will have to spend at least two nights at her place so as to 'give child support'. At first when I found out he said it was a mistake, since he thought I would become wild and fight, but now that I accepted the child, he says he is not sorry for what he did and expects me to respect whatever he does. We don't communicate well when he comes home, he does not call me at all to know how we are if he sleeps out. He does not spend time with the kids at times promises to take them somewhere and fails coz hes always at her place. Almost all his Clothes, shoes... are at her place,He drives her car most of the time. He is very arrogant at times and shouts at the kids n me when he comes home. He does not want to tell me what his intentions are ? I cant tell because, he will never allow any discussion concerning tha matter.
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