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writes:Im completely puzzled by this guy. We met a couple of months back swapped numbers etc but I wasnt too interested. But he bombards me with texts and I finally agree to meet him for a date. The date went fine apart from one little hitch......when I first met him he said he had a 2 year old daughter but it turns out he doesnt have any children at all! He said he was sorry for lying and he didnt know why he did it! Maybe he was just trying to impress me in some weird way? Anyway, after the date he was texting me and stuff saying I was lovely and cant wait to meet up again. We arranged to meet out on Sunday night as we would both be out with our friends. We were texting all day and I told him the place to meet me. He didnt turn up and didnt contact me again all night. I left it. The next day he text to say sorry he couldnt meet me but his friend got hurt in a fight and he had to take him to hospital. Im not sure if this is true but he could of at least text me to say he wasnt meeting me. I got really annoyed with him and he asked me to meet him this week so we could talk. I said ok but he hasnt made any contact with me since, and hasnt replied to my text I sent earlier. What is going on with this guy? I cant work it out,he chased me for ages and now just acts all weird. I havnt done anything to him for him to behave like this. Like I didnt sleep with him or anything. And he really doesnt seem like the player type, he seemed so genuine and nice. Ive just been left hanging and not sure what to do?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 May 2012):
 I would avoid him like the plague. Seems like he likes the chase more then the girl (you) ?
Maybe he friend really did get hurt, but I'd still step away from this guy. He just comes of as iffy (from what you write).
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (9 May 2012):
 The only reason he wanted you was because he couldn't have you. Now that you've agreed to go out with him, you're not a challenge anymore.
Next time, stick to your guns. Don't date anyone you don't want to, and certainly don't "give it" and give someone a pity date. If someone's bugging you, block their number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): He is a LIAR .No sincerity or consistency.You were only a challenge temporarily. Guys can easily fake being nice. move on
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